Mother, May I? A Guide to Navigating Life’s Goals

Life has a funny way of feeling like a game sometimes—full of twists, turns, setbacks, and victories. One childhood game that beautifully captures this journey is Mother, May I? It’s a game about asking permission, taking steps forward, and occasionally being told to stop or move differently. Just like in life, reaching your goals requires patience, strategy, and resilience.

1. Speak Up for What You Want

In Mother, May I?, you don’t move forward unless you ask. Life is the same way. If you want something—a new job, an opportunity, a fresh start—you have to put yourself out there. Ask for guidance, reach out to mentors, and be clear about your goals.

2. Move at Your Own Pace

Some players get to take giant leaps forward, while others must settle for baby steps. Sound familiar? Sometimes, you’ll make huge progress in life, and other times, it’ll feel like you’re crawling. That’s okay. Every step matters, no matter how small. Some days you leap, some days you skip, and sometimes you just inch forward—but every movement gets you closer to where you want to be. Your journey won’t look like anyone else’s, and that’s the beauty of it. Keep going at your own pace.

3. Embrace Setbacks as Part of the Journey

In the game, if you forget to say “Mother, may I?” you get sent back to the starting line. Life can feel the same way. Sometimes, you make a mistake or take a misstep, and it feels like you're back at square one. But starting over isn’t failing—it’s just another chance to move forward with more wisdom and experience. Every time you get sent back, you still have the same opportunity to advance again. Keep playing.

4. Listen and Adapt

Winning at Mother, May I? requires paying close attention, listening carefully, and adjusting your approach. Life works the same way. The most successful people aren’t the ones who never face obstacles—they’re the ones who learn, adapt, and keep moving forward. Be flexible, stay open to change, and don’t be afraid to pivot when necessary.

5. Keep Your Eyes on Your Own Finish Line

The goal of the game is to reach the finish line, but no two players take the same path to get there. In life, it’s easy to compare your progress to those around you, but their journey isn’t yours. Stay focused on your own goals, celebrate your progress (big or small), and keep moving forward. Your finish line is waiting for you.

Conclusion

Life, like Mother, May I?, is about taking thoughtful steps, embracing challenges, and staying determined. Some days you’ll move forward quickly, and other days you’ll need to pause and adjust. But as long as you keep playing—asking, learning, and stepping forward—you’ll get where you’re meant to be. So go ahead, take that next step—just don’t forget to ask, Mother, may I?